The Iowa Eighth
Judicial District, Department of Correctional Services’ Batterers’
Education Program has been up and running since 1991. The program
started with just one group, but today there are 27 groups meeting on a
weekly basis throughout 17 counties in southeast Iowa.
Perpetrators of
domestic violence often come to us angry and, embarrassed: “I
should not be here. This is my partner’s fault. This was only my first
charge. It was such a minor incident. My partner provoked me. This is a
family problem. If I hadn’t been drunk or high this would not have
happened. This program is run by a bunch of man haters.”
Batterers often have a
sense of entitlement that allows them to justify emotionally,
physically, sexually and verbally abusing their partners. A very high
number of batterers also physically abuse their children. Although some
may never lay a hand on their children, if they are abusing the mothers,
then they are indirectly abusing the children as well.
The Batterers’
Education Program promotes accountability and we try to encourage
offenders to stop using the common tactics of power and control against
their partners. Those behaviors include intimidation, physical and
sexual abuse, verbal and emotional abuse, minimization, denial, blame,
collusion, justification, economic abuse, and using the children against
their partners. To achieve this, we teach and encourage offenders to use
non-violent behaviors that promote respect, responsible parenting,
economic partnership, honesty and accountability, trust and support, and
negotiation.
Of course, after giving
offenders the tools to establish non-violent relationships, they must
choose to use those tools to help make their relationships true
partnerships. The more pro-social the individuals we see, the better
chance we have at seeing real change.
Our top priority is to
make offenders understand that battering is a choice--- a choice that
destroys relationships, families, and even lives. We’ve literally worked
with thousands of people. While it would be naïve to suggest that all
batterers benefit from the program, we know firsthand that many
offenders have been positively impacted by the program. Much of the
success we see can be directly linked to our trained and dedicated
facilitators and those offenders who understand the harm they have
caused. Although the vast majority of offenders are ordered to the
program by the courts, some enroll in the program voluntarily.
For those who do
re-offend after completing our 16-week program, we offer a 24-week
program that is more therapeutic in nature and builds on previously
learned material. We work very closely with the Crisis Center and
Women’s Shelter and other area domestic violence projects.
If interested in more
information about the program, please call
Julie Trinkle, Batterers’
Education Program coordinator, at 641-682-8383 Ext. 19. For related
information, see the links in the left column.